This blanket is a simple knit pink blanket that was purchased for her before she was born. Out of the twenty or so blankets she has, this one just seems to be the one she holds the closest.
It almost feels like she’s the female Lionel from Charlie Brown. I see her dragging that blanket around from upstairs to downstairs, downstairs to upstairs. Then I look again and the blanket is being dragged from the den to the bedroom, from the bedroom to the living-room.
I see her sitting and eating with it, trying to brush her teeth with it, and even jumping right out of the bath to run to it. She won’t turn it loose! It get’s washed multiple times in the course of a week yet it manages to almost always be dirty from “something.”
The Blanket has to GO!
Most of the time my issue with the blanket is just the way it looks. It went from a bright-glowing-pink-soft-fluffy-feeling blanket to a stale-flat-pale-gritty-feeling blanket in three years of endless dragging. Normally I just shrug my shoulders and laugh at the thing but of late my daughter has had a cold.
Any parent will tell you that germs from sneezing and coughing can get into the things the child has contact with and cause them to stay sick longer instead of getting better.
So, grudgingly, we forced the blanket out of my daughter’s regular rotation. Of course, she wasn’t pleased. It was change. It was something she loved, knew was hers, and had established familiarity with. However, since the blanket is gone she has a better chance of getting over her cold faster and not getting sick again.
She doesn’t know it but the garment is part of what was keeping her trapped in a state of sickness. Her legitimate excuse: she’s three years old!
What about us?
We, as adults, know a lot of things that are keeping us from our true purpose, true potential, or even, true happiness but we won’t let them go. We have friends, habits, and guilty pleasures that keep us trapped in a state of sickness, frustration, disappointment, suffering, and/or pain and we’d rather keep them close because they are familiar.
I guess this whole post is to remind us that sometimes CHANGE is beautifully necessary. Releasing our security blankets is a tall order but a necessary step for us to grow into what we’re destined to be.
It is time for us to take inventory. It is time for us to change. Even in the winter of life change is possible.